In middle age, I have come to relish the rewards found in work. I’ve never been a career-driven sort of person, but always ended up in little niches where I can find satisfaction and outlet for creativity and my somewhat obsessive tendencies. I’ve rarely worked on a project for more than a few months, so my longer-term writing and singing projects are making me grow in new ways. I see that commitment yields results: improvement in my skills and self-esteem among many other things.
Life is short, and there is no reason not to do what my spirit calls me to do: learn, love, create, express…. Yet, I have stifled myself, talked myself out of taking yet another photo, making yet another necklace, or writing a journal entry, because I can’t find a value in that thing. What does the world need with more—even just virtual—things?
It’s true, the world is brimming over with things. But what’s littering up the planet is mass-produced junk for consumers, which is a little different from what I’m talking about. Whatever spark of creativity, however small, that went into making that junk has been extinguished. The destructiveness of junk far outweighs its constructiveness, I think. But true creativity is an antidote to destruction, no? Creativity is our nature, and I think it’s incumbent upon us to let it flow.
Some of this nature is just part of being an animal. Nesting involves creativity, mating displays involve creativity, and hunting may require creative thinking. Our brains are programmed to solve problems. So we’ve got the mechanics, but then there’s Spirit, or our higher self. This is the part of me that comes out when I’m hiking in the woods, and who wakes up when the rest of me goes to sleep at night. This is the part of us unencumbered by ego or time or obligation, when random elements collide and fuse inside of us into something entirely new. The lightbulb moments. Creativity, when unburdened by motives and goals is pure Spirit moving through us.
Creativity for me can be an emotional roller coaster if I don’t anticipate and prepare for the ups and downs. It is inevitable after every season-end choir performance, I experience an emotional letdown. Weeks and months of work, of collaboration, of sweat and worry and memorizing and honing, have come down to a few hours, and then the audience goes wild with applause, and perhaps my friends congratulate me, and then it’s over, and I go home, and feel empty. I made magic with my fellow choristers—we created a real, living entity in the music—but now it’s gone. I’m kind of in mourning. The music keeps playing in my head. But there’s no one to sing with. It’s just memories. So, perhaps I’ll get out a songbook and start working on something by myself, anything, to quell the echoes still ringing in my head. The immersion in the creative process brings me back into balance.
This year, my choir season is longer than usual. I am leaving today on a roundabout trip to Nice, France, where I’ll be in just over a week, to sing with my choir in a church just blocks away from the scene of the recent tragic events. I know that being there won’t be easy. But musical concerts are living, ephemeral creations of sound and beauty that have the power to move us to our core. I don’t have the goal of fixing or healing anything or anybody, but in performance, we never know how a song, or even what particular word or note in a song, is going to affect people. It’s out of our hands.
So, just as I wondered if life is more meaningful when shared, is the product of our imagination more meaningful when shared? (When a tree falls in the forest…) Yes, I think so! And I don’t believe I’m contradicting myself here. I simply because I am moved to. But how incredibly rewarding if our creativity results in someone being moved or touched, or provoked into thought or action. This is unpredictable though, and it mustn’t be our goal. It’s lovely for the ego, but potentially addictive, and ultimately meaningless if we don’t enjoy the process.
If we feel good when we sing, when we paint, when we cook, this is reason enough to do it. But when we share open-heartedly, it elevates that creation. It approaches alchemy. What more reason do we need?
I’m off—to fly, rest, to visit, and then to sing!